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I am in love with my blood brother and having sexual activity with him

Question - (23 October 2006) 40 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2008)

A female , *unnyjoy writes:

I am a freshman at the university this twelvemonth. This is the second year at the academy for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get united states a ii bedchamber apartment for u.s. to share. We accept always gotten along really well and its been bully.

Iii weeks ago Steve was sitting around one forenoon in his shorts studying. I was in my panties and bra when I went into the kitchen to set something to eat. He came in and hugged me from behind and gave me a kiss on the neck. I turned and we were face up to face. It was like time stopped. We looked into each others face and than kissed. It was so cool so nosotros kissed again. We began to kiss longer and soon nosotros were making out and pulling each others clothes off. We ended up in my bed together having sex. We had not planned it but nosotros talked nearly it and admitted that we had both enjoyed information technology. Ever since than we have been having sex. We now even sleep in the aforementioned bed together. We both dearest each other in a more special way than ever before.The trouble is that nosotros are keeping information technology secrete from our friends and family. I would like to just tell anybody but Steve says it is best to just proceed information technology serenity, because they wouldn't understand. I hate keeping this secret from our parents but I know they would exist injure. What should we practice? We love each other very much.

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A male reader, bearding, writes (23 February 2008):

That is really weird find someone else! Wat if u get pregnant! wat u gonna tell ur kids? That his/her father is ur bro. Thats merely wrong. Anyways skillful luck

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A male person reader, anonymous, writes (27 Jan 2008):

good luck to you 2 i say, try to treat this as a normal relationship and wait that if you lot accept a autumn out someone might have to move out. if you lot are in love and desire to marry, you are ganna have to look at some serious stuff, similar moving away from all that y'all know, even your parents and starting time a new life, though hopefully y'all tin talk to your parents and be open up, though sadly im very doubtfull of this. as someone who understands medicine i tin tell you that, unless you guys are the product of incest, if y'all wereto have children they will be fine, though if you practise go down this route, the doctors will know in an instant and you will accept to explain to them as well, but that information technology is not for along time. for now just have fun, do what you honey, why not become for a trip abroad at some signal to where you lot accept never been and take a date, get to a nice restaurant and hold each others hands in public, maybe wait till there are sopme people around y'all and lean acrss the table and kiss your blood brother, see how it feels out in the world. hope i helped you, if y'all wanna contact me my email is [email address blocked]

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A male reader, bearding, writes (14 December 2007):

I don't remember what she's doing is disgusting. Didn't you read her follow-upwards post below where she said their human relationship is based on true love? And that they love and treat each other more than than ever earlier? As far every bit birth defects, they are not universally true in cases of incest. Non all incest-related births result in birth defects. They are keeping this a secret because they know their relatives will react negatively to their relationship and will not sympathise. Equally long as they both truly love each other, that is all that really matters.

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A female person reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

I actually practice think that this is icky. I think it should stop immidietly, without anyone finding out, espically your family and freinds. Incase you arent aware this is against the police, and why practise y'all think this is? Considering the goverment dont desire it to happen? NO considering it is genetically unsafe. What would happen if yous got pregnant?This tin can impairment the babies wellness and if they want children so on and then forth. The whole DNA volition be messed up. Talk through information technology with your sibling, i also remember its foreign that he doesnt want people to know, quite obviously he knows nothing will come out of it, its just sex, but you need to come to an agreement. And you need to make it cease, before you get hurt and injure you familys feelings.

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A male person reader, anonymous, writes (xviii Oct 2007):

Sex between brothers and sisters happens more often than most people would recall. As long equally you both experience like you love each other and bask your relationship, that is all that matters. However, I would Not tell anyone else about it, because they probably will non understand and volition recall y'all are sick or perverted or volition otherwise judge y'all. They as well will probably tell others that yous wouldn't desire to know about information technology. I definitely too would Non tell your parents or other family unit. If anyone else here has had sexual practice with an reverse-sex sibling, please respond to this post and relay your feel hither.

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A female reader, coconips  +, writes (11 October 2007):

is steve ur existent blood brother or step brother?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (eleven October 2007):

My sister is two years younger than me, and we both went to the same university. The year I graduated, we shared an flat for the summer months. My sister had a full fourth dimension job and I was just hanging out until starting graduate school in the autumn. During the first week, nosotros were upwardly tardily drinking and I concluded upwardly admitting to my sister that I was depressed because I was still a virgin. Equally you might guess, her efforts to cheer me upwards ended up with the states having sex. In the morning, we were both embarassed about what had happened, only we were able to talk about what this meant for us. We both felt that it was a special moment that we would never regret. We recognized that while we loved each other, nosotros were blood brother and sister and we would eventually have relationships with other people and probably marry and have children. For the rest of the summer, my sister and I became lovers, sleeping in the aforementioned bed and sharing our lives in every way. Subsequently that summertime, I went on to graduate schoolhouse and my sister continued her univeristy degree. Nosotros both missed each other terribly for months, simply we accepted that what we had shared was temporary. Eventually we dated other people, married and had families. That was over twenty years ago, and since that fourth dimension nosotros accept occationally had sex activity or a passionate kiss during a quiet moment. But no one knows that nosotros accept a special relationship. Our experience has been that if yous tin can keep your relationship secret, and you lot both recognize that it is not going to lead to union, and then it can work out. Nosotros both experience that our relationship has made our marriages stronger, because we have someone with whom nosotros tin can exist completely open when times are bad. Regardless of what people think, there are many things that yous absolutely tin not say to your husband or wife. With my sis, I have a person I can share intimate details of my life. I know that if I did not have her I probably would have had an affair that would have led to the terminate of my marriage. Exist honest with each other, and you may develop a supportive relationship that fills your life with happiness.

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A male reader, bearding, writes (viii Oct 2007):

Dear Bunnyjoy: It sounds like you actually are in love with your brother, so you should proceed your relationship with each other a undercover. Some people will not understand and call back what you're doing is disgusting, but I am not one of those people. As long as you both enjoy this relationship, I say keep having it, but like I said, go along it a hush-hush. Ane thing that may happen is that this human relationship might terminate, like so many other college relationships do, afterwards you leave college and you lot showtime seeing other people. If you are withal checking these replies, delight update u.s. on where things are with your relationship with your brother.

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A female person reader, workon123  +, writes (6 Oct 2007):

Dont tell your parents...having sex activity is ok, but dont tell anyone...secrets are proficient. Keep having sexual activity.

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A male reader, int5  +, writes (4 October 2007):

I remember thats SOOOOOO HOT!!! I back up y'all 100% beloved is love,dont allow anyone else tell you different. I find it a turn on when a girl does her brother or is involved with him. i wish you lot all the luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007):

I am so jealous, my sister and I take flirted all our lives.Most of all I would like to tell her how much I love her and savour the wonderful pleasure of existence with her. Everything I accept read suggest that sister brother sex activity is the best sex always, what you have should stay between the two of you lot. It is no 1 else'south business organisation what 2 consenting adults practice. Virtually of all enjoy it while it final. No guilt and no shame in what y'all are doing and don't listen to the judgmental people are the i who crusade hate kickoff wars.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (five January 2007):

Dear Bunnyjoy, I think you lot are committing to a beautiful thing, and you should keep doing it if it makes you happy. I think there should be more people like you lot, who are mettlesome enough to share such personal experiences. I am not against incest as long as it is of age, consensual and there is no history of (or current sexual/physical/verbal) abuse. To those who take a Christian perspective, how did Adam and Eve's children conduct children? In the view of Darwin's theory of evolution, how did the first humans procreate? There had to be some sister/brother sex somewhere along the line.

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A male reader, dorfmeistersfan +, writes (27 December 2006):

This may appear ill and digusting to some, b/c they never been in this situation or may have had their part of a "encephalon heart"-the amygadala, e'er challenged in this capacity. True, it's genetically risky to be having sex with someone who has a similar genetic makeup as yourself due to genes, when they combines during meiosis, have a chance to over express certain genes, giving rise to abnormal actualization siblings. And so, becareful of conceiving kids for the sake of this, but as far every bit sex, equally long as noone is making kids here, the sex you're having is probably amazing-SO KEEP It Upwards! Withal, as far equally keeping secrets from parents, this is definitely an unacceptable practice in all parts of humanity in the The states. I know y'all may love him passionately and hate keeping this a secrete, but you don't have a choice. Don't compromise yourself by making a choice to inform your parents of this..YOU CANNOT-YOU CANNOT TELL THEM THIS Always-THEY WILL NEVER Sympathize, B/C THEY CAN'T Empathise THIS Deed REGARDLESS OF YOUR FEELINGS, Love, AND ACCEPTANCES.......it volition break their hearts and soul-UNFORGIVABLE. Adept luck with this, and may your life continue to be happy! [e-mail address blocked]

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A female reader, bearding, writes (five December 2006):

That's so disgusting and wrong! Me and my brother are closer than close with merely 23 months between united states of america and existence together everyday even now (he'due south 18 I've just gone xx) and of course I honey him dearly only I wouldn't dream of doing that, nor would he. Information technology's sick. You both demand help. Seriously! There's no good alibi for this. I don't empathize why yous didn't finish him

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (iv December 2006):

hey what u doing is incorrect. at that place is so many people out there who will dearest to accept sexual activity with u. later on on u might have a infant from him. how u are going to explain that u your son or daugther that his or her dad was your brother, this is merely not adequate..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 Oct 2006):

this is just disgusting,observe somebody else to have sex.you should be ashamed .

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A female reader, vion  +, writes (28 Oct 2006):

What is love? Everyone has an stance on love, merely few are dauntless enough to define it. To me dearest is the affinity experienced between two people who are naturally able and willing to melody into ane some other's emotional, intellectual, and physical states - and respond to them in a nurturing and a stimulating style. At present why do I come out in support of this adult female? Considering I also, am involved in a sexual relationship with my brother. We take been sexually active since our early teens and have been living together as husband and married woman for almost twenty years now. We take iv beauty children together and out lives together isn't any dissimilar from other 'normal' people. If you lot feel this is what you lot want, go for information technology!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 Oct 2006):

girl, stop immediately. you accept your whole life ahead of you. if u have kids they will probably suffer a astringent handicap. this is wrong, illegal and unfair to everyone. in that location is a whole world out there for u to explore. for everyone'south sake including yours leave before its likewise late. have the courage and the maturity to practice this for anybody especially you.

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A female reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (26 Oct 2006):

Ok, you lot and Steve obviously desire to exist together, and then be information technology no 1 can cease it simply for the love of your parents NEVER TELL THEM!!!! Y'all're best bet if you want to stay with your brother (which I don't condone but love is beloved and honestly there are men who crush, corruption and cheat so whose worse?) is to motility far far far far away... like another country far. Your parents will just think y'all guys are living together so they probably won't freak. And when yous visit make it look platonic. If gay's in the 50's could pretend to exist only roomates so can you guys... but proceed it that way!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006):

i agree with eyeswideopen.. this woman does Non have a problem and is NOT looking for help, input, thoughts or answers. this woman asked 'what should i do ? ' ..at present that people answered her question she totally ignores the answers. heed bunny, without prejudice, i think you should stop worrying or discussing your sexual/personal drama since you plain love your biological brother and null or no 1 tin can / will stop you. so really you don't accept a trouble.

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A female person reader, Astrid  +, writes (24 October 2006):

Well I think information technology is not a good idea to practise this once again one of u 2 should be reponsible enough to stop information technology and movement to a different flat renta room in your shared falt and so u get the money for the other to get away, it is not correct what u did consider it a thing that never happened and stay separated for a time you lot will detect whatsoever other man who would turn you on as nuch equally him and who will brand you feel what real things almost love become similar information technology is not just a fuck with the first person at mitt even if it is your brohter. I am sure lots of men tin turn you lot on likewise and you will find them far more than interesting than you're blood brother... I seriously call back yous need counselling every bit before long as possible motion darling he'south made the move and u cannot end now maybe you're being emotionally abused? good luck

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A female reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 October 2006):

Once again nosotros accept a person who is non looking for any advice or aid so there really is no reason to respond to her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006):

i disagree with angelpuss when she says that animals do this sort of thing. because actually, that's non true. fifty-fifty they really don't tend to mate with members of their own litter or 'family unit' so to speak. anyway, i'm trying to keep an open mind near this consequence, and non let society'due south blatantly negative view of incest bias my thoughts on the matter. but when you expect cross-culturally, incest is severely looked down upon EVERYWHERE. even indegineous cultures that are not developed accept such negative views on incest. which means that it'south go a known fact everywhere, that this sort of attraction is not 'natural' by whatsoever means. my point of view, and i'k a psychology major so hopefully my thoughts are somewhat based on facts rather than stance, is that you should potentially seek counseling. you may not think that at that place's anything wrong with you or that just considering you're attracted to your blood brother doesn't mean that psychologically y'all're disturbed. but you may come to learn that this sort of affair is not natural behavior, and that for someone to feel this fashion towards family members, may indicate that there is something wrong with your attachment style. or something went incorrect along the way of your natural development. anyway, that's all i got. that and i estimate 'bro's before hoes' is a practiced motto for you lot.

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A male reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (23 October 2006):

This is a faux question isn't information technology? I recall someone has been reading too many books by Virginia Andrews!!!

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A female person reader, Bunnyjoy +, writes (23 Oct 2006):

Bunnyjoy is verified as beingness past the original poster of the question Possibly society says information technology is incorrect but we love each other and care about each other. Nosotros have known each other all our lives and accept been shut and good friends to each other. At present we realized that our feelings are more just blood brother sister or as good friends. Information technology has evolved into true love. How can dearest be wrong? Past the answers some people have given I think they might be right and just not say anything at to the lowest degree for at present. We utilise contraceptives so we wont take any children. We know that is dangerous. Nosotros figure we already take the same last name so if we get someplace afterward college to alive together they volition but assume we are married.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 October 2006):

Bunnyjoy and Steve...hummmm...nope that just doesn't cut it. No future here.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

im deplorable! simply this is all wrong! its non normal! if u had children etc they would have bug, permit alone the upset it would cause in the family unit! deceit u run across information technology wrong?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

the questions to you lot and him are: what kind of moral values do you hold and uphold ?, what kind of moral beliefs do yous believe ?, what is your ethical and moral principles ? what is your conviction ? what is your conscience telling you ? how do y'all ascertain respect ? how practise you lot value yourself ? .. reply these questions honestly, evaluate yourself and face reality ...

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A male reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (23 Oct 2006):

This is across words. I think of information technology in my instance I can't imagine having sex with my sisters at all. To each his ain but this is non acceptable by any walk of life. You need to seek some professional person assist and quickly becaus this by no stretch of the imaginatioin is correct. Good Luck.

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A male person reader, anonymous, writes (23 Oct 2006):

All problems bated if you are going to continue this you are best not to tell any family unit or friends. No one is likely to understand.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

This is incest, and information technology will cause pain and upset within the family unit.If you take seen the TV drama "Brookside", every bit aired on Aqueduct 4 in the U.k., you will see the reaction it causes within the dynamics of a family.Air-conditioning

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A female person reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

Strictly speaking its confronting the law just is it merely sexual activity lust or love lust? If its just for sex, terminate it now before you go injure, if its honey- similar real dear- well, come up out with it. Some people were just meant to be.

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A female person reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

your brother is correct when he says not to tell anyone because its truthful - they wont sympathize and you and him may be rejected from your family, as information technology is seen as wrong. But no one can tell you what to do...if y'all both dont run across a trouble with it and its not hurting anyone else...then, as adults, you can choose to practise what you desire.

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A female reader, mwest  +, writes (23 Oct 2006):

Stop right now! What are you both crazy or something. This is not normal behavior for a brother and sis. I think you lot both need somekind of counseling, quickly.

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A female reader, andrea23 +, writes (23 October 2006):

you lot need to stop this relationship now, how do you call up your parents would feel if they constitute out about this, you lot & your brother being together would be enough to put them in an early grave. not only that if yous ii had a child together it would probably be born with abnormalties equally you & your brother share the same genes & that wouldn't be off-white on a wee baby & then there would exist the critism could you handle anybody pointing the finger at you. i think yous should quit while you're ahead

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A female reader, bearding, writes (23 October 2006):

Stop right now, you will both end up hurting each other. I know you lot wont want to hear this, just its illegal. You volition cause and then much hurting to your family and friends, and y'all volition never be able to contrary this. The best thing would be to get some altitude between y'all, so you dont fall into the trap again. I really hope you will both be ok, and find someone that you lot can share a future with. Its difficult when you beloved someone and all reason goes out of the window, simply think of the damage this will all cause. Please recall of what i am saying, and eventually you can put this behind you,and if your lucky no one volition accept found out. Good luck to both of you

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A male reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (23 October 2006):

You need to find your own apartment. You've crossed over a line that should have never been crossed. You and your brother both need counseling . . . and shortly. Practiced luck.

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A male reader, soulmasseur +, writes (23 October 2006):

This is not normal at all and is known equally incest. Any incestuous relationship, especialy between a sister and a blood brother, faces social disapproval and condemnation (amongst "lay men")or is legally a criminal offence in near any community. Information technology reflects deep, ingraved psychological complexes and an unresolved mental crunch shared by both partner that tin be traced dorsum to the past. As you say, you and your blood brother accept been imagining to accept a sexual human relationship for a long time and I believe this certainly finds roots in your childhood and those early stages of the life. HOw was your relationship before this incidence? Tin can yous remember of whatever betoken or invitation from the brother in the past that now you empathize with sexual indication? Are you lot at present engaged in whatever relationship with an outsider? If no, why? You should sit down seriously and reconsider this state of affairs.

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A female reader, bearding, writes (23 October 2006):

you lot should stop making up lame stories that no one cares about. and if this is not a simulated story, i apologize, and advise you both to get to a psychatrist and go yourselves checked out. whatsoever siblings who sleep together obviously were brought upward in a screwed up way, and both of y'all need aid. its disgusting.

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A male person reader, bearding, writes (23 October 2006):

Hi, this is a real difficult question and answer beacuse we are all humans to dearest and sex ways that if you both are sexually attrachted or else in love. First what is love for you, something that is in you and cannot describe exactly what it is is a skillful feeling towards some one else but you cannot expresit lonely with out some other person and this person has to be the write person for you, saying when to persons doing the aforementioned things they dearest to do together shareing there life between them. So I just tell you something, I have two sisters and never though of these things especially where are grown ups and have our families also. Only matters even what kind of life you two have shared maybe you lot were very airtight and loved each other as know one else that's real love Now we come for sexual activity nature is perfect and for the reason of years past every thing came to be modificated for its own employ and purpose if you are reaching me the only thing I am trying to say that nature does not know any affair about brothers and sisters since you came for sex there is the problem because if you seeds are mixed so you are endangering whats next maybe yes or mayhap no ? If you two for case you lot go living where nobody knowx yous y'all are simply two figures or a couple. May be if some one meet you armes circular together the say look what a wounderfull and loving couple they are . Then now I an coming for an answer for me loving each other is very nice for both but be carefull when having sex becuse it might exist harmfull for the others now a days there are many biologiacal test 1 can do to observe more about your semen ok. I know a couple that wheren't brothers or sisters and had a problem of marrying each other because they wheren't no brother's and sis'southward but for nature they were equally and they didn't marry they didn't only said we dearest each other and don't worry but they did not and left autonomously. Hoe every thing you do, you lot just do information technology good and for your ain means. Ciao

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